So I'm 16 and so is my mate (so we are both still in highschool) and there is this one girl that we both have a crush on. We've both liked her for a while but we only found out we both liked her about half a year ago. I tell him that I want him to be happy so I want him to try and go for her and I tell him that I'd be happier if she went for him instead of me.. but I was lying. I want to be the one she falls in love with, I want to be happy with her. Of course I want him to be happy, but I want her aswell. Is it selfish of me to feel that way?

1 year ago

Mate it’s so sweet of you to say that and that you care so much about the people around you, it’s a difficult situation and I mean if it flows with you and this girl I recommend talking to your mate and going through with it. Caring for people around you and putting their needs/wants ahead of yours can be really difficult sometimes, but you gotta remember what you want sometimes too :)

1 year ago

no it is not, talk to your friend

1 year ago