So I'm I've been talking to this girl for a bit and we started flirting and decided to go on a date, we set the date for the 17th but ever since we talked abt it she's been talking to me like we're in a relationship and I mean it's not that I don't like her but we're not in a relationship yet and I'm wondering if she thinks we are, ik I should ask but idk how

1 month ago

Somebody gave great advice I concur with those thoughts! (communicate your boundaries in a subtle way) Be true to yourself! It's okay to be upfront and honest as it comes from a place of truth and love. Out of compassion they will be considerate of your boundaries! Also try to put yourself in their shoes. They are probably really excited to have found somebody to connect with. If you go along with what your not comfortable with they have no way of knowing they have crossed a boundary and it will continue and escalate. Generally works out better to be upfront earlier than later

1 month ago

I'd suggest to just ease her into the modality that makes you more comfortable right now. Try avoid calling her "love", "honey", and other nicknames. Just call her by her name.Avoid seeing her friends too much when it's not needed, and don't present her to yours just yet. I'm not saying to play it cold, just show some boundaries. Cuddle, go on dates with her, have sex and whatnot. Show you're available, but not all that commited yet. If she insists with her ways, just tell her. "I like you very much, but I don't feel there quite yet. I want to go slower." I'm sure she will understand. If she doesn't, well... there's a million other people in this earth that will be more compatible to you.

1 month ago

Try saying, “Do you think we would make a good couple?”

1 month ago