Where to begin?! I’m stuck in a bad marriage, with a borderline mentally abusive asshole. I’ve been a homemaker, with the same man for 15 years. I’ve gone back to school but whenever I get close to completing something that could possibly lead to financial independence, he finds a way to ruin it. We are cordial but there is no love...we have slept in separate rooms for years now. I’m not overly social and don’t have family to help. I’m at the point where I do not ever see an out. I’m in my mid 40s. When I was young, I felt like the world was at my feet...now, after relying on someone for so much time I don’t even know how to “begin” life alone. It makes me wonder how many people out there are stuck in fucked up marriages...it doesn’t have to be “abuse”.....but how many are just done? Fell out of love? Stay for the kids but nothing else? Or for finances?? And is there anywhere people can connect with others just to sound off??? Places or chat groups for people stuck in shitty marriages who just need someone to commiserate with who can understand! NOT really interested in faith-based crap or therapy. My marriage is done. I have searched locally for groups and there aren’t any....just “hookup” sites (which, yeah, serve a purpose lol Human touch is a life staple for most, I assume). Sometimes, though, you just want to connect with someone in the same boat...because misery loves company and often the mutual support can help everyone involved...

2 years ago

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