why do I not wanna be in a relationship? I'm seriously in a relationship with a girl (imma gal aswel) and as soon as I like someone and we start dating I don't want it. I just simply don't want to be doing the things in a relationship that you would call normal. I have been in multiple relationships with guys and girls but all I have ever done is kiss them for a little while then break up of boredom. please help me decide whether I'm just fucking weird or some other shit. I read a lot of bl and yaoi (boy love) and I feel connected to that and I feel like I want a relation with that sorta thing. (i am not fetishizing) am I trans??? asexual???? aromantic??? I'm confused as fuck. so uh yeah :)

2 years ago

I’ve experienced similar issues, the word that has most closely described this for my own experiences is lithromantic. You should look it up, I feel like it would help you with some of your questions. It basically means that when feelings from your crush are returned, you loose interest quickly. Sorry if this isn’t much help to you.

2 years ago