My good friend really doesn't know how much it hurts when he lets me down or bails on me. I let it go last year as he went through a big depression drop and I was patient but it hurt. Then again he sleeps and forgets we were gunna hang and prioritizing other things or people over me.

2 years ago

i want to back away though. and i tried to talk to him about it but i knew it was his depression too.. we talked last time when he went through it. i will see his attitude this weekend was really harsh so. i dunno..

2 years ago

don't completely isolate yourself from him. The point is to make him realize you are NOT obligated to stay around him for his own sake. he needs to know you will leave if you don't get the same treatment back. again, try talking to him about it and have him clearly see where you're coming from

2 years ago

I know..I should. But also he's been a good friend through a lot too but it hurts a lot. I will step back maybe. Its been up and down and its hard.

2 years ago

from what you're saying, you either 1) have to directly speak to him and explain whats bothering you 2) start prioritizing yourself and finding yourself within new crowds of people (make new friends). It's completely unfair for you to be waiting around for whenever he needs you when he wouldn't do the same. Be more selfish and look after yourself

2 years ago