My boyfriend and I have been going through a really rough time lately. We broke up and he moved to Florida for a week and a half and decided to move back. Things were really bad before he left, but I feel like they are even worse since he got back. He never wants to spend time with me. He is constantly on his phone. He always tells me “I’m not on your time”. He doesn’t lay with me anymore. I am financially supporting him and struggling. I feel like he is never grateful. He always tells me “don’t expect things from people when you do nice things for them” because I tell him relationships are a give and take and he just takes. I don’t really know what to do. I love him, but I don’t feel any type of love from him. He blames everything on me and never takes accountability for anything. He hasn’t done laundry or helped me clean one time since he has gotten back, but says it’s only fair cause he has cooked like maybe 3 times in the last 2 weeks. Whenever I hang out with him, he never is about me... it’s always about him. He never asks me what I want to do. He has never even planned a date night for us. I just want to feel loved and cared about. He owes me almost 3,000 dollars and threatens to not pay it back when we’re in fights. I just want to be happy and I’m starting to realize this isn’t the right place to be. It’s affecting my mental health so much because I don’t feel worth his time or love.

2 years ago

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